Gabe came over on Saturday just as I was rolling out the pie crust dough for quiche shells. He watched me roll the dough onto the rolling pin, unroll it over the quiche pan, and tuck the dough carefully down into the pan. “I want to bake!” he declared. “I want to bake banana chocolate chip muffins—with you, Uncle Roger!” like we had done once before. “I get the bananas!” No matter how cheerily bright his eyes shone, I could not pivot to baking with him after spending an hour mixing and shaping the dough, and preparing the quiche mix. And the raw shells had to go into the preheated oven, right now, for seven minutes filled with aluminum foil and ceramic baking beads, and three more minutes without. He retrieved a green mixing bowl and placed it on the counter, letting me know he was ready. “Nope,” I begged off, empty of patience and tact. “I’m not starting another baking project.” Gabe looked crestfallen. “But look at all this extra pie dough,” I offered him a ray of hope. “We can make cinnamon pie-crust cookies.” I showed him how to roll some of the buttery dough into a ball, press the ball onto the cookie sheet, and poke a depression into the cookie with his thumb, followed with a spoonful of Dad’s cinnamon-Splenda mix. Gabe was a pro, and soon had most of the dough formed into cookies, which we baked after the quiche shells came out slightly browned, partially baked—they would compete their bake with the ham, cheese, egg, and cream filling. When I had arranged the hot finished cookies on a plate, Gabe ran up expectantly for one. “Nope,” I stopped him. “Before you eat a cookie, you need to take this plate and serve everyone else a cookie.” The four-year-old, surprised by this important responsibility, took the plate first to Mom, then to Dad—Gabe’s great-grandparents—inviting them to take and taste one of his cookies. He looked enormously proud and pleased. The cookies were quickly consumed, and he brought me the empty plate, wearing a big smile. “Good job,” I praised. “Now, come with me—I have another job for you.” Dad had purchased a new showerhead, and had asked me to install it. Gabe carried the crescent wrench up the stairs into the bathroom, while I talked him through how to change a showerhead. I removed the broken showerhead and hose, and told him they needed to be thrown away. “Can I throw them away?!” he asked hopefully. The deed happily done, I hoisted Gabe up in my left arm, joining my right hand with his small hands to thread on the new showerhead, over a strip of Teflon tape wrapped tight. “Turn it good and tight,” I instructed, and he did. I turned the water on, and Gabe pressed his face against the glass where the water pounded. “Now, go tell Grandpa.” Gabe raced down the stairs and reported to Dad that the he had thrown Dad’s old showerhead away and put the new one on—and it worked! I felt pleased at his sense of accomplishment. “What are we going to do with the rest of the pie dough?” I asked him. “Do you want to make a strawberry pie?” He nodded eagerly, and I helped him shape and roll the dough. His dad helped him spoon strawberry jam into the center of the circle, then bring one side of the dough over the jam to form a semicircular turnover. I sealed the edges with fork tines, and slid Gabe’s pie into the oven. When the turnover came out, nicely browned, Gabe glowed. He let his pie cool, then cut it and took pieces to Mom and Dad, and Sarah and Tracy, who raved and praised, much to Gabe’s delight. “You did a lot today, Gabe,” I reminded. “You made cinnamon pie crust cookies, you put on a new showerhead for Grandpa, and you baked a strawberry pie!” “Thank you, Uncle Roger,” he sighed, self-satisfied, knowing he had learned important new skills. “Next time,” I offered, “let’s bake banana chocolate-chip muffins.”
(Pictured above: Gabe’s strawberry pie.)