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Courage at Twilight: What a Reunion

Fifty years.  These men and women, all in their 70s now, graying and wrinkling, limping and slowing, still loving and laughing, traveled in their 20s to Brazil, sent by their Church to be proselyting missionaries, to share a gospel message of love and spirit and Christ, of pure living and eternal families and love of God, with the people of 1970s Brazil.  Dad began his three-year unpaid tour of duty as their 36-year-old leader, mentor, and president, Mom by his side, their oldest child (me) only eight, with Sarah’s infant arrival imminent.  Now these mature men and women gathered at Mom’s and Dad’s house, sixty of them, seated in tight rows and listening, and Dad did not disappoint them.  I sat in the back with Megan, with my head in my hands, weary from the day’s setting-up, listening to all his old stories for the three-dozenth time, and looked up to see his audience enrapt, admiring, joyful, reliving the old stories, which are true, after all: the story of Maria who during World War II kept her tithing in a glass jar buried in her back yard, delivering the coins to Dad, himself a young missionary in 1957, and receiving from him a receipt for her widow’s mites; the story of Dad translating for a living prophet of God who greeted, became acquainted with, prayed for, laid his hands gently upon, and quietly healed each of the twenty sick and distressed Church members, one at a time, who awaited with faith his blessing; the story of Dad’s impression that all persons he contacted on this particular street would answer, “Yes—please come back and share your message with my family,” and they did; the story of priests who had Dad arrested in 1958, and through the iron bars his cell Dad told the prison guard he had arrested a minister of Christ, and the guard growled, “Prove it,” and Dad replied, “Pull up a chair,” and preached of Christ and his ancient Church restored in our day, with living prophets and apostles, preached for three hours until the prison guard had to confess Dad was, indeed, a minister, and released him from his cell, and committed to reading holy modern scripture; another story of Maria, who cooked in an outdoor oven made of loose bricks and sheet metal, feeding the fire with straw, her thermometer the back of her hand, Maria who baked a cake for the missionaries on the first day of every month, and invited them to visit on that first day if they wanted a fresh cake, or later in the month if freshness was not a priority; the story of a second arrest, Dad again behind bars, the prisoner in the adjoining cell screaming as the guard wacked him with a rubber hose, and the voice of God whispering to Dad, Do and say exactly as I instruct, and you will be safe and let go. This is not a joke, and Dad followed that voice and demanded to see the warden and instructed the warden on the doctrine of Christ and on his calling as a missionary ambassador of Jesus, instructed further on unlawful imprisonment and bad press and police duty until the warden relented and released him and promised him the police would not harass the young missionaries again; and the story of persons who dreamt of church buildings they had never seen until accompanying Dad and his missionaries to Sunday services in the very church buildings of their dreams, be they a rented room or a remodeled house or a regular Church meetinghouse; the story of Arthur, an Italian giant, whose hard heart softened from flint to flesh over Dad’s fifteen years of gentle shepherding until Arthur finally went grudgingly to a Church meeting and cried like a baby and demanded baptism, now, not in two weeks—tomorrow—and who remained a meek and faithful Jesus disciple to the last of his long days.  Though I had heard these stories many times, Dad’s retelling was expert and touching, compelling even, as if this mission reunion might be his last, his final tender testimony of God’s miracles and of Christ growing his latter-day Church and changing hearts and lives.  Sixty sets of eyes moist with memories and the love of God and the love of sisterhood and brotherhood and Christ community.  I led the group in Dorival Caymmi’s classic 1956 swinging hit “Maracangalha” ending with “…eu vou só, eu vou só, sem Anália, mas eu vou…”  The reunion ended with plates of coxinha chicken croquettes and kibe beef croquettes  and pão de queijo cheesy bread balls and bom-bom candies and cups of cold guaraná soda and catching up on grandchildren and jobs and health and passings away and sufferings and joys and handshakes and backclaps, visiting until near midnight, the happiest of gatherings.

 

(Yours truly with my dear sister Megan)

Courage at Twilight: Cheese Monger

In our class at church, the coordinator asked the men for two volunteers to work a shift at the church dairy.  No one raised their hand.  But after church I was able to clear my calendar, and signed up.  Gordon, a retired orthopedic surgeon, picked me up the next morning and we drove to the dairy processing plant of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Salt Lake City, Utah.  The plant is one of 18 facilities on Welfare Square that produce 143 food items, including peanut butter, powdered milk, honey, beef, canned fruit, cheese, bread, pasta, and staples (wheat, rice, oats).  These products stock the shelves of about 129 Bishops’ Storehouses and are available at no cost to needy Church members and others.  Gordon and I were assigned to work in the cheese plant.  Forty-pound blocks of cheese, aged in the cooler for a month, slid across rollers and through slicing harps.  The result: 40 one-pound blocks of cheddar ready to be packaged in plastic, labeled, weighed, stamped with expiration date and batch number, and rolled up the conveyor belt to yours truly, decked out in blue hair net, yellow face covering, and black gloves.  Frequent volunteers, Scott and Kent instructed me in my job: loading 20 blocks into each box, running the boxes through the tape machine, and stacking the boxes on a pallet.  Each pallet held five rows of 18 boxes, or 1,800 cheese blocks.  We filled four pallets, for over 7,000 one-pound blocks of cheese in one day—3.5 tons!  The dairy receives about 128,000 gallons (1.1 million pounds) of milk every week, which is bottled as well as transformed into chocolate milk, cheddar cheese, sour cream, yogurt, cottage cheese, powdered milk, hot cocoa mix, and butter, all made there at the modern, gleaming, clean facility.  The Church’s “Welfare” program came into being when Church members were unemployed and hungry during the Great Depression, as a way for the Church to take care of its own rather than turning to government assistance.  The whole program is funded by the financial contributions of Church members, who also clock millions of volunteer hours a year (like my five hours today).  I grabbed and boxed blocks of cheese as quickly as I could to keep up with the conveyor flow.  After several hours of packing thousands of cheese blocks into boxes in a 40-degree room, my shoulders and back grew fatigued and sore from the repetitive reaching and lifting.  I welcomed two breaks fueled with cheese remnants and chocolate milk.  After our shift, the volunteers were permitted to purchase dairy items at market cost—you better believe I brought home a gallon of the amazing chocolate milk, plus five pounds of butter to feed my baking habit.  Leaving the dairy, I felt exultant.  I learned yet again how joy comes from working to help others.  And how proud I felt to be a small part of the ambitious Welfare Square endeavor to help humankind.

(Pictured above: dairy products I purchased after working at the Church’s dairy processing plant.)

 

Dairy plant poster.

 

40-pound blocks of cheddar cheese.

 

The finished one-pound package.

 

A full pallet.

 

Yours truly, incognito.

Courage at Twilight: Elevator Girl

“I got bit by the booster,” I texted my boss the Mayor when I asked to be excused from her staff meeting. I had put off getting my Covid-19 booster vaccination (shot #3) because I missed two days of work each with the first two shots, with fever, aches, and chills.  (My aged parents had no adverse reaction to any of their Covid shots!)  Knowing I might get sick, I needed to plan around Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s Day, Steven’s visit in early December, Laura’s visit in mid-December for Caleb’s wedding, and Jeanette’s post-Christmas visit, not to mention weekly City Council meetings.  I thought I had escaped Continue reading

Courage at Twilight: Tithes and Offerings

Tithing

Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, said Yahweh to Israel.  Thousands of years later, paying one-tenth of one’s increase continues to be the standard in my Church, a law both temporal and spiritual.  Temporal to help the poor, and to build schools and churches and temples.  Spiritual to show faith and obedience, spiritual to turn outward to others, spiritual to be sanctified through sacrifice.  Tithing and other offerings are used for Church buildings and programs, for Church institutions of higher education and missionary work, to help the poor, and to provide humanitarian assistance worldwide.  Every December, members of our Church are invited to meet with the local church leader, the Bishop, for a Tithing Settlement, where we discuss in private our tithe-paying status.  Mom and Dad put their names on the sign-up sheet for after Sunday services.  I followed the unconventional step of asking if I could join in their appointment, though we tithe our incomes separately and privately.  The Bishop thanked us for our offerings and reiterated Jehovah’s promise that for those who give to the Church, God will open the windows of heaven and pour out a blessing upon us that we will not have room to receive.  Our vessels will be full to overflowing.  We consider ourselves greatly blessed.  And we are grateful.

 

(Photo from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.)

Courage at Twilight: Neighborhood Birthdays

The neighborhood women of the Church Relief Society, whom we call Sisters, invited all the women with October and November birthdays to a birthday luncheon, in true Relief Society fashion.  Mom drove herself up the street to join 20 other birthday girls.  She was so happy to associate with her friends, neighbors, and fellow Sisters.  And she enjoyed the soups—creamy chicken noodle and spicy chicken taco—not to mention the desserts.  Several Sisters stopped by with birthday gifts for Mom, including Barbara R., who brought a small loaf of banana bread (adding walnuts because Mom is “extra special”), Barbara N., who delivered a potted plant, because we all need to be near green living things, and Judy, with a fresh baguette and raspberry freezer jam, which went perfectly with our dinner of pork loin topped with a sweet deglaze of boiled dark stout Guinness and raspberry dressing.  Such events and interactions greatly enrich Mom’s life.

Courage at Twilight: Recommended to the Temple

Salt Lake Temple

On a Sunday afternoon, I took Mom and Dad to see their church leaders to renew their temple recommends. This document allows them admittance to the temples of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  The Church has 265 temples worldwide in operation or at some stage of construction.  They are magnificent buildings, and we consider them a House of God on earth.  Temples are not for regular weekly worship services, but for ceremonies in which we covenant with God to obey his commandments, to be moral and chaste, to contribute our time and means to the Church, and to love and serve one another.  We are instructed on the purpose of existence and the nature of God and his Son.  And couples are married and families sealed together not just until death but for eternity.   We change into white clothing as an aspirational symbol of purity and cleanliness, and of having left the world outside.  Mom and Dad do not visit the temples anymore due to age and infirmity, but visited temples monthly during the previous decades.  Even not attending, to them it is important to be worthy to attend.  So, they cheerfully waited in the church meetinghouse foyer for their interviews, making pleasant small talk with the other temple-goers.  I waited for them as they each had their turn, knowing the questions they would be asked, including: Do you have faith in God the Eternal Father and in his Son Jesus Christ?  Do you believe in Jesus and his role as your Savior and Redeemer?  Do you strive for moral cleanliness, and are you chaste?  Are you a tithe payer?  Do you abstain from consuming harmful substances?  Do you believe in the truthfulness of the Church, and support its Prophet and Apostles?  Are you honest in all that you do?  Mom and Dad each emerged from their brief interview with humble smiles, the smiles of peace from living lives of faith and good works.

 

Pictured above: Temple in Salt Lake City, Utah (where I live), dedicated in 1898.

Some Church temples around the world:

Washington D.C. Temple

Washington, D.C.

 

Laie Hawaii Temple

Hawaii, Laie

 

Hong Kong China Temple

Hong Kong

 

Accra Ghana Temple

Ghana, Accra

 

Lisbon Portugal Temple

Portugal, Lisbon

 

Oakland California Temple

California, Oakland

 

Sao Paulo Brazil Temple

Brazil, Sao Paulo

Courage at Twilight: Garden Party

Mom received an invitation from one of the women of the Church.  It was fancy, with vinery winding around the pretty graphics and text.  An invitation to a Relief Society Garden Party.  The Relief Society, established by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in 1842, and reestablished in 1868 after the “Mormons” were driven from Missouri and Illinois into the wilds of Utah Territory, created a “temporal and spiritual ministry” by which the frontier pioneer women cared for each other, Church members and not.  The Relief Society organization, tradition, and mission thrives today, both with weekly meetings and countless acts of ministering to one another by over seven million women—a great worldwide sisterhood.  And here was the Garden Party, 179 years on, with 60 neighborhood women converging on the designated garden.  I dropped Mom off at the driveway and watched her gather with the welcoming throng.  She beamed as she walked through the front door three hours later, happy, refreshed, built up by camaraderie and love.  Dinner had consisted of a huge salad bar spread over several tables, plus one for desserts.  She loved visiting with the women, her sisters, and particularly enjoyed those who beamed cheer despite personal hardship.  For that is what we do: we take what comes and help each other through with smiles on our faces, sustained by a faith that all will work out in the end.